英语翻译I'm confused these days .We are taught at home and at sc

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I'm confused these days .We are taught at home and at school that using violence is the least civilized way to solve problems .For example ,last week I thought about hitting my friend for winning a beautiful shell while we were playing at the beach .I talked with him instead and we came to an agreement .If two adults had a disagreement ,and if thy used violence towards each other in order to win ,is it all right
When two countries disagree ,they ofter fight a war .Why is using violence not okay at home ,at school ,or in yourcountry but okay between countries So many people have been killed because of wars ,not only soldiers but ordinary people ,even small children and babies .And refugees exist ,too .
A war is a great violence ,like twopeople fighting over a shell,but much bigger .Adults say they are fighting wars in order to solve problems and make peace .But can you really " make peace " by killing so many people I don't think bombs can reach people' shearts and change them .Bombs can't create love and caring ,and that's what we need in the world .Why do adults use violence so quickly Why can't they use their wisdom and talk it over
Adults might say that things are not that easy .But they are the ones that teach us to be kind ,not to hurt people ,and not to kill .Why don't they act as what they say

我这几天很迷茫.我们都知道武力是解决问题的最后的办法.比如,上周我们在海滩上玩贝壳的时候,我想抢我朋友的贝壳.我先给他说,而后达成了一致.如果两个大人用武力去赢,对吗?
如果两个国家闹别扭,他们就会用武力,为什么在家就不能用武力呢?这么多人因为战争而死,但是我们能因为和平而杀那么多人吗?我不认为炸弹可以改变人们,炸弹不能创造和平和关爱,而我么的世界正需要爱与和平,为什么大人用武力那么的武断,为什么不耐心的去解释呢?
大人会说事情并不简单.但他们有教育我们去关心别人,别去伤害别人.为什么他们不按他们说的去做?