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英语翻译
you want to teach your children how to say sorry,you must be good at saying it yourself,especially to your own children.But how you say it can be quite tricky.
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Then there is the general,all covering apology,which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was particularly hurtful or insulting,and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again.Saying “I’m useless as a parent” does not commit a person to any specific improvement.(g6v+I\5c M3M
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These pseudo-apologies are used by people who believe saying sorry shows weakness,Parents who wish to teach their children to apologize should see it as a sign of strength,and therefore not resort to these pseudo-apologies.\x19M;G3z\7|8]\x12{)S

机器翻译的就别害人了,
you want to teach your children how to say sorry,you must be good at saying it yourself,especially to your own children.But how you say it can be quite tricky.
如果你想教育您的孩子说：对不起,那么你必须要先说对不起.特别是对您的孩子说.但是怎么说呢,这就需要技巧了!
If you say to your children “I’m sorry I got angry with you,but ...” what follows that “but” can render the apology ineffective:“I had a bad day” or “your noise was giving me a headache” leaves the person who has been injured feeling that he should be apologizing for his bad behavior in expecting an apology.
如果您只是对孩子说：对不起,我刚才对你发火了.但是.您在“但是”后面增加的话语如：“我今天过得很糟糕”,“你太吵闹了,让我头疼!”,会使“对不起”完全失效.
Another method by which people appear to apologize without actually doing so is to say “I’m sorry you’re upset”; this suggests that you are somehow at fault for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done
另外一个方法,在没有人做错事的情况下就表示抱歉,例如：很抱歉,你感到很不安么.一般在他人的行为在一定程度上,让你感到不安的情况下使用.
Then there is the general,all covering apology,which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was particularly hurtful or insulting,and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again.Saying “I’m useless as a parent” does not commit a person to any specific improvement、
最后,是一个大众的用法,包含所有道歉的用法.它不是针对特定行为,尤其是伤害或者羞辱他人情况下,表示歉意.而是在某人保证不再犯错的情况下使用,就说：我是个很差劲的家长,不用说明自己的某个具体行为.
These pseudo -apologies are used by people who believe saying sorry shows weakness,Parents who wish to teach their children to apologize should see it as a sign of strength,and therefore not resort to these pseudo-apologies
这些言不由衷的抱歉,曾经有人认为,谁说抱歉就代表谁是弱者.父母教育孩子的时候要表明,道歉也是强者的标志.这样就可避免此类虚伪的道歉!
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