英语翻译It’s not easy being a teenager（13至19岁青少年）—nor is it easy

英语翻译
It’s not easy being a teenager（13至19岁青少年）—nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager.You can make your child feel angry,hurt,or misunderstood by what you say without realizing it yourself.It is important to give your child the space he needs to grow while gently letting him know that you you’ll still be there for him when he needs you.
Expect a lot from your child,just not everything.Except for health and safety problems,such as drug use or careless driving; consider everything else open to discussion.If your child is unwilling to discuss something,don’t insist he tell you what’s on his mind.The more you insist,the more likely that he’ll clarn up.Instead ,let him attempt to solve（解决）things by himself.At the same time,remind him that you’re always there for him should he seek advice or help.Show respect for your teenager’s privacy （隐私）.Never read him his mail or listen in on personal conversions.
Teach your teenager that the family phone is for the whole family.If your child talks on the family’s telephone for too long,tell him he can talk for15 minutes,but then he must stay off the phone for at least an equal period of time.This not only frees up the line so that other family members can make and receive calls,but teaches your teenager moderation（节制）.Or if you are open to the idea,allow your teenager his own phone that he pays for with his own pocket money or a part –time job

作为一个青少年不容易,作为青少年的父母亦如此.你可能你的话会让你的小孩觉得愤怒,受伤,或者误解而你却毫不察觉.给你的孩子足够的空间去成长,同时温柔的让他知道,当他需要你的时候你会在他身边!
不要任何事情都对孩子期望的很多,除了健康或者是安全之类的问题,例如药品的使用,或者是大意驾驶之类.考虑一下将全部事情都可以摊开来（大家）商量.如果你的小孩不愿意去讨论一些事情,不要坚持让他告诉你他的真实想法.你越是坚持,就越可能会让他抵触.相反让他自己尝试去解决他问题,同时提醒他你会永远在他身边,如果他需要建议或者帮助!要尊重你孩子的隐私,不要去看他的邮件或者偷听私人谈话.教育你的孩子,家里的电话是整个家庭共有的.如果你的孩子用电话时间过长,告诉他可以讲15分钟,但之后他必须放下电话,至少也要相等的时间段.这不紧紧是让电话空出来,而是告诉你的孩子要节制,同时也可以让家里其他成员用到或者接电话.或者如果你将这个方法扩展开来,允许你的孩子拥有自己的电话,但费用必须要用自己的零花钱或者打工的钱来出!