英语翻译During the past ten or fifteen years a great deal of att

英语翻译
During the past ten or fifteen years a great deal of attention has been given to "telling it like it is"or"letting it all hang out".My point of view is that speaking our minds without any reservation has more often led to hurting feelings than to great joy and satisfaction.Ithink we generally agree that never expressing real feelings and thoughts about each other hardly leads to ture communication.It is good to have more houest relations with others.But we need to have a balance between telling it all telling nothing.Recently I received a letter from a mother who had been persuaded by her twenty-five-year old son to attend a weekend meeting with him.Under pressure from the group,her defences broke down and she heard herself telling her son for the first time that he had been an accident----that she hadn't planned to have a child.He in turn told her that there had not been a single day in his childhood that he had been happy."At that time,"the woman wrote,"it seemed helpful.We both cried.I thought telling the truth had been good for us.But the trouble is that it was not the whole truth.By the time Tommy was born Idid want him,and at times he was happy.Ever since that day we've both been bothered by some terrible feelings we shared." Imust admit I've come to the conclusion that things are better left unsaid.Honesty is a fine policy as long as we know what the truth reallyis---but most of the time we don't.It's a fine goal to encourage children to express their real feelings.And it's good for people to tell the to each other.But we need to have a blance.Telling the truth cannot solve every problem.It is useful in certain situations but terribly harmful in others.It's a good idea,I think,to bite your mind.Try to decide whether it's going to do good to free communication or leave wounds that hurt for ever.

在过去十至十五年已"告诉想说"让它在所有挂"了大量的关注.我的观点是毫无保留的良心说话更经常造成伤害感情比,感到非常高兴和满意.我相信我们普遍同意永远不会表达真实的感情和思想相互几乎导致真正的沟通.很高兴能有更多 houest 与他人的关系.但我们需要告诉它都没有什么之间取得平衡.最近我收到一封信从已经劝说她 20 岁五老儿子参加周末会晤,与他的母亲.该集团的压力下,抛锚了她的防卫和她听到她告诉她的儿子第一次他一直事故----她没打算要孩子.他又告诉她没有一天中他一直快乐的童年."在当时,"女子写道："看起来很有帮助.我们都哭了.我想告诉真相一直对我们有利.但麻烦的是它不是全部的真相.张宇人出生挨的时候要他,和他有时感到高兴.自从那一天我们都一直困扰我们分享了一些可怕的感情."众人面前承认我愚钝的东西都变得更好的结论来.诚信是良好的政策,只要我们知道什么真相看---但大部分时间我们不喜欢.很漂亮的进球,鼓励儿童表达自己的真实感情.真好告诉人们彼此.但我们要有平衡.说的是实话不能解决所有问题.它是在某些情况下很有用,但在其他非常有害.这是一个好主意,我想,咬你的思想.请尝试来决定是否要做好离开永远伤的伤口或自由通信.