英语翻译TouchedShe is my daughter and is immersed in the turbule

英语翻译
Touched
She is my daughter and is immersed in the turbulence of her 16th year.Following a recent bout with illness,she learned her best friend would soon be moving away.School was not going as well as she had hoped,nor as well as her mother and I had hoped.She exuded sadness through a muffle of blankets as she huddled in bed,searching for comfort.I wanted to reach out to her and wrench away all the miseries that had taken root in her young spirit.Yet,even aware of how much I cared for her and wanted to remove her unhappiness,I knew the importance of proceeding with caution.
As a family therapist I've been well-educated about inappropriate expressions of intimacy between fathers and daughters,primarily by clients whose lives have been torn apart by sexual abuse.I'm also aware of how easily care and closeness can be sexualized,especially by men who find the emotional field foreign territory and who mistake any expression of affection for sexual invitation.How much easier it was to hold and comfort her when she was two or three or even seven.But now her body,our society and my manhood all seemed to conspire against my comforting my daughter.How could I console her while still respecting the necessary boundaries between a father and a teenage daughter?I settled for offering her a back rub.She consented.
I gently massaged her bony back and knotted shoulders as I apologized for my recent absence.I explained that I had just returned from the international back-rubbing finals,where I had placed fourth.I assured her that it's hard to beat the back rub of a concerned father,especially if he's a world class back rubbing concerned father.I told her all about the contest and the other contestants as my hands and fingers sought to loosen tightened muscles and unlock the tensions in her young life.
I told her about the shrunken antique Asian man who had placed third in the contest.After studying acupuncture and acupressure his entire life,he could focus all his energy into his fingers,elevating back rubbing to an art."He poked and prodded with prestidigitatious precision," I explained,showing my daughter a sample of what I'd learned from the old man.She groaned,though I wasn't sure whether in response to my alliteration or my touch.Then I told her about the woman who had placed second.She was from Turkey and since her childhood had practiced the art of belly dancing,so she could make muscles move and ripple in fluid motion.With her back rub,her fingers awakened in tired muscles and weary bodies an urge to vibrate and quiver and dance."She let her fingers do the walking and the muscles tagged along," I said,demonstrating.

Touched感人的
She is my daughter and is immersed in the turbulence of her 16th year.她是我的女儿,她在16岁那年,被浸入到湍流中
Following a recent bout with illness,she learned her best friend would soon be moving away.
最近,除了她的病发作外,她还了解到她最好的朋友要搬到别的地方去
School was not going as well as she had hoped,nor as well as her mother and I had hoped.
她在学校的成绩并不好,不如她预期的那样,也不如她妈妈和我预期的那样
She exuded sadness through a muffle of blankets as she huddled in bed,searching for comfort.她蜷缩在床上的时候,用被子裹着自己,并发出一丝丝的哀伤的声音,以此寻求安慰
I wanted to reach out to her and wrench away all the miseries that had taken root in her young spirit.我想接触她并赶走那些在她童年时就扎根在心里的悲伤
Yet,even aware of how much I cared for her and wanted to remove her unhappiness,I knew the importance of proceeding with caution.可是,虽然知道我多么在乎她和多么想驱除她的不快乐,我知道前进必须带着小心.
As a family therapist I've been well-educated about inappropriate expressions of intimacy between fathers and daughters,primarily by clients whose lives have been torn apart by sexual abuse.作为一个家庭治疗师,我已经主要地再那些家庭被性虐待弄得支离破碎的病人的身上,学到了亲密的不恰当表达
I'm also aware of how easily care and closeness can be sexualized,especially by men who find the emotional field foreign territory and who mistake any expression of affection for sexual invitation.我也知道关心和亲近是多么容易被性特征化,特别是那些在异国找到感情领域的男人,还有那些很容易把感情表达当作是发出性邀请的男人
How much easier it was to hold and comfort her when she was two or three or even seven.如果她是两岁、三岁或七岁,那该是多么容易去抱抱她和安慰她啊
But now her body,our society and my manhood all seemed to conspire against my comforting my daughter.可,她的身体,我们的社会还有我男人的身份,都似乎把我对女儿的关心变成了阴谋
How could I console her while still respecting the necessary boundaries between a father and a teenage daughter?怎样才能在关心她之余又尊重了父亲和一个青少年女儿之间的必要界线
I settled for offering her a back rub.She consented.我只好给她扫扫背,她同意了
I gently massaged her bony back and knotted shoulders as I apologized for my recent absence.我为我最近没有关心她而道歉,同时,我扫了扫她瘦骨嶙嶙的背和瘦瘦的肩膀.
I explained that I had just returned from the international back-rubbing finals,where I had placed fourth.我刚才国际揉背大赛回来,并得了第四名
I assured her that it's hard to beat the back rub of a concerned father,especially if he's a world class back rubbing concerned father.我使她确信对于一个担心的父亲来说,要做揉背大赛上拿名次是多么难,特别是一个工薪阶层的担心的父亲
I told her all about the contest and the other contestants as my hands and fingers sought to loosen tightened muscles and unlock the tensions in her young life.
我告诉了她关于比赛的所有的情况和其他选手的情况,同时,我的手和手指试图放松她那紧绷的肌肉并解开她童年时就开始的紧张
I told her about the shrunken antique Asian man who had placed third in the contest.
我告诉了她那个矮小古板的得了第三名的亚洲男人
After studying acupuncture and acupressure his entire life,he could focus all his energy into his fingers,elevating back rubbing to an art.在他退休后,他学了针灸和针压,他可以把力都集中在手指是,并把揉背提升成一种艺术
"He poked and prodded with prestidigitatious precision," I explained,showing my daughter a sample of what I'd learned from the old man.他刺得精度很高,并示范给我女儿看我从这男人身上学到的东西
She groaned,though I wasn't sure whether in response to my alliteration or my touch.
她轻吟道,虽然我不知是因为我的话还是我的按摩
Then I told her about the woman who had placed second.我告诉了她第二名的那个女人
She was from Turkey and since her childhood had practiced the art of belly dancing,so she could make muscles move and ripple in fluid motion.
她来自土耳其,并且从她孩童时代就练习肚皮舞,所以她能流畅地把肌肉移动和变成水纹状
With her back rub,her fingers awakened in tired muscles and weary bodies an urge to vibrate and quiver and dance.当她给别人揉背时,她的手指能在劳累的肌肉和疲倦的身体震动和跳舞并唤醒这些肌肉和身体
"She let her fingers do the walking and the muscles tagged along," I said,demonstrating.
她能使她的手指行走并使得肌肉尾随,我边说道,边示范