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请教这断阅读的中文意思.
This is not to say you should simply dismiss your pain and go on as if nothing has happened.That,according to clinical psychologist Janis Abrahms Spring,Ph.D.,author of How Can I Forgive You,is "cheap forgiveness," an unhealthy approach that is doomed to fail because "it's a desperate attempt to cover up the injury" rather than come to terms with it.Usually someone avoids confronting her hurt and the person who caused it because she's afraid—of conflict; of losing her connection,however dysfunctional,with the offender; of facing up to her own role in the situation.Spring advocates acceptance—you acknowledge fully the wrong that's been done,"clear your head of emotional poison," then move on.
This is not to say you should simply dismiss your pain and go on as if nothing has happened.That,according to clinical psychologist Janis Abrahms Spring,Ph.D.,author of How Can I Forgive You,is "cheap forgiveness," an unhealthy approach that is doomed to fail because "it's a desperate attempt to cover up the injury" rather than come to terms with it.Usually someone avoids confronting her hurt and the person who caused it because she's afraid—of conflict; of losing her connection,however dysfunctional,with the offender; of facing up to her own role in the situation.Spring advocates acceptance—you acknowledge fully the wrong that's been done,"clear your head of emotional poison," then move on.
这并不代表你应该仅仅遗忘你的痛苦,就好像什么事情都没发生过.在《我怎样原谅你》的作者——临床心理学教授Janis Abrahms Spring看来,那是廉价的原谅,一种注定会失败的不健康的方式.因为那是人们在绝望中试图掩盖自己的痛楚,而不是直面问题并解决它.通常,有的人会尽量避免直接面对痛和造成这种伤害的人,因为,她害怕冲突,情不自禁地害怕与此人断绝往来,同时害怕面对在这种情况下自身的处境.Sping 提倡坦然接受-完全承认别人已经犯下的过错,清除头脑中消极的情绪,整理好你的情感,然后一如既往的生活.（尽力啦!