英语作文How to Make 0ther's Feel Important

英语作文How to Make 0ther's Feel Important
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Here are four tips to help you make others feel more important.
1.Greet everyone you meet with enthusiasm.Have you ever called someone on the telephone - or met them somewhere -- and they greeted you with such energy and enthusiasm that you felt they must truly adore you?A greeting of ardent and genuine enthusiasm sets the tone for your entire encounter.It's such a simple skill (the hardest part is remembering to do it) but if you CAN remember,it will enliven all of your relationships.This skill can be particularly life-changing when practiced with your children.A simple show of enthusiasm and appreciation when a child walks in the room can have a miraculous effect on the relationship.
2.Slow down.Take the time in conversation to really listen.While someone is talking,focus on taking in what he or she is saying in words,tone,and body language instead of thinking about what you are going to say next.Relax and listen before responding.As you practice this form of deep listening,work on identifying the other person's needs.Put your own needs aside during the conversation and focus on determining what *they* need today.Imagine that each encounter is like a brief interlude in what may otherwise be a hectic day.Slow down and savor the connection you can make with another person,even in a casual conversation.
3.Work on remembering the details of past conversations and encounters.Ask about the things they confided to you.How did her business presentation go?How is his ailing father?It's often helpful to make little notes to remind you to ask about something or someone the next time you meet.This simple skill shows people that they are important to you.
4.Appreciate the small things that people do for you and never pass up an opportunity to say thank you.It doesn't have to be anything fancy...a few kind words or even a simple note is plenty.Find simple and small ways to show appreciation and caring to those you love.Maybe it's bringing home takeout when your spouse has been home all day with a sick child.Maybe it's making a quick phone call to your mother.As you go through your day,be thinking of how you can take a step toward recognition and appreciation.
When you make the people around you feel important,you create a climate of trust and mutual appreciation,which can change your life in ways large and small.Try it today.
这里有四个建议,帮助您要让别人觉得更重要.
1 .热情的迎接大家.你有没有给某人打过电话-或某处会见了他们-他们用同样的精力和热情欢迎你你觉得他们是真正喜欢你吗?问候热情和真诚热情的态度奠定基调为您的整个遭遇.这是这样一个简单的技巧（最困难的部分是记住这样做） ,但如果你能记住,将搞活您的所有关系.这技能可以改变生活的尤其是与你的孩子练习时.一个充满热情和赞赏的简单节目,一个孩子走在房间可以有神奇的效果.
2 .慢下来.花时间在交谈,真正倾听.虽然有人说话,重点是在考虑他或她说的什么话,音调和身体语言而不是思考什么你会说下一个.放松,并在听取前回应.正如你实践这种形式的深听,工作,查明了其他人的需要.把你自己的需要搁置在交谈和重点确定什么* *他们今天的需要.试想,每遇到像一个简短的插曲在什么否则可能是一个繁忙的一天.减缓和品味的连接可以与另一个人,即使是在一个偶然的交谈.
3 .记住过去发生的对话和接触的细节.问关于他们向你吐露的事情.他或她的生意怎么样了?他生病的父亲怎样了?人们常常帮助很少注意到提醒你询问某事或某人下次您满足.这个简单的技能显示,他们对你重要.
4 .感谢为你做的每一个小事情的人们,决不放过一个机会说谢谢你.它不需要多绚丽...一些客气话,甚至一个简单的说明.寻找简单的和小的方式表明的赞赏和照顾那些你爱的人.也许是外卖带回家时,你的配偶一整天都在与一个生病的孩子在家.也许这是给你母亲的一个迅速电话.在你度过你的每一天时,想到如何可以学会承认和赞赏.
当您周围的人你觉得重要的时候,你创造一种气氛,信任和相互赞赏,它可以改变你的生活的方式.今天就开始尝试吧