英语翻译For many of us,the idea of a family is a lot narrower th

英语翻译
For many of us,the idea of a family is a lot narrower than it used to be.Today children go away to college,and take up jobs wherever chances seem greatest.So instead of growing up in a family with grandparents,aunts,uncles and cousins,many of us are truly connected only to our parents and brothers.Many kids today know little of the lives of their relatives and don’t care deeply about them.Whether we realize it or not,this feeling of being disconnected makes people feel a kind of lonely.“People need to feel connected,”says Joy Browne,a doctor in the U.S.“And they will do it in the easiest ways.” When family members aren’t connected,what could be easier than forming(形成) a connection to famous people?This isn’t something unusual,of course.People cried when Mei Yanfang died in 2003.It’s natural and in most ways harmless to feel that way.But that’s unhealthy,because these relationships(关系) aren’t two-way.For that,we need to stay connected to our own families.Parents can help by telling their children stories about their
grandparents,aunts and cousins,and by telling them the children’s latest activities and interests.We can use technology to keep connected with each other.It’s easy to send e-mails to granddad Better yet,take a vacation with members of your relatives--not with any other person.A week or so of relaxing vacation can be a great way to tie up family ties.And when a bad thing happens,no one can be as helpful as your relatives.Because no matter how much we cry for the famous people,they can’t be there to cry for us.

对我们很多人而言,家庭的观念比过去狭隘了很多.今天,孩子们都在较远的地方上大学,然后他们会在任何觉得合适的地方接受工作.所以我们中的很多人实际上只是和父母和兄弟联系,而不是在一个拥有祖父母,叔叔阿姨,表兄弟姐妹们的大家庭里成长.今天,很多小孩子对自己的亲戚们了解甚微,而且他们也不是很在乎亲戚们.不管有没有意识到,这种疏远的感觉让人们感到了一种孤独.“人们需要沟通,”来自美国的医生周·布朗说,“而且人们也应该以最轻松的方式去做到沟通.”当家庭成员都不再沟通时,怎么和名人们沟通变得容易了呢?当然,这不是什么异常的事情.2003年梅艳芳去世的时候人们在哭泣.这是自然的,我们以多数无害的方式去感受.但这是对健康不利的,因为这些关系并不是双方的.为此,我们需要和我们的嫁人沟通.父母可以给孩子讲他们祖父母、叔叔阿姨的故事,同样也可以告诉他们孩子们最近的活动和爱好.我们也可以用科技来保持彼此沟通.给你的祖父母发邮件会变得容易很多.也可以和你的亲戚共同度假——而不是和其他人.一周左右的轻松假期可以让你和家人变得更紧密.当有不好的事情发生时,没有人比你的亲戚更加有帮助.因为不管我们为名人流多少眼泪,他们都不会为我们哭泣.
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