The gap between father and me

The gap between father and me
Everyday we hear the news about some students committe suicide because they can not support the pressure,or some investigation for the adolescence who chose suffer the internet rather than communicate with their parents.As juvenile delinquency become a more and more serious problem in this time,we can not avoid that the means of how to bridge the gap between parents and the children is coming fast.
Under the circumstances,we are concentrating on the reason to cause the tragedy.Apparently,children and their parents are educated in different times,the message they get,the culture they learn,the things they experience,all of these are different.For an instance,my father is a strict man,sometimes I think he is a little preciseness,he can not understand why I am so crazy about writing,from his viewpoint,it wastes time as I need more time to exersice the body rather than write these romantic novels.As a English-major student,I must put healthy and degree as the frist condition.
It is not the first time he stifles me,when I was only five years old,my parents bought a piano to me,at the beginning,I was very interested in these keys of the piano.However,I found it was to hard to sustain while the key was so cold that I could not endure it in winter.In that time I became lazy,I made some excuses for not to go to the piano teather,I was not looking forward to playing some graceful classical.The result was my father comparatively angry.
I would never forgot the expression of him that night,from a father’s tired,disappointed,and sorrow.He told me hysterical:”I can forgive you any reason for you would not study hard ,but the piano,you must play it!”
After my father left,I cried for at least an hour.
We always complain about my parents who do not know us,while we ignore a fact that we do not give a chance to parents to help they understand us fully.We should know,parents are not your enemy,they are the most kind people to you in these world,sometimes it is just they do not know how to express their love,or sometimes you do not catch out their devotion.
Never take your parents devotion for granted,because I am sure you will regret in future day,that time you will find you have not chance to atone it.
So,why we could not cherish this time,if you have some different views,try to communicate with your parents,if you have any kinds of difficult in life,perhaps your parents can give you more useful suggestions than your friends for they experienced more than your coeval.
Do not have a pessimistic thoughts when you talk with your parents,you will find mental conversation are more succeed than you expect,Besides,you should trust that your parents love you deeply.

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