英语翻译The local bishop in the western Canadian city of Nelson,

英语翻译
The local bishop in the western Canadian city of Nelson,was going to perform the ceremony.July 18,1987,would be the day,just before my 37th birthday,when I would get married for the first time.
　　Her name was Helen.She was a hairstylist,and we had met in Cuba in March 1986.Three months later,we were engaged.Then,in her Vancouver flat 11 months later,she said she couldn't marry me.
　　The drive back to my home was an endless journey of destructive emotions and thoughts.The hurt had already set in,but the humiliation was still ahead.
　　"Yes,time will heal the pain."I told friends.I vowed it would be a long time before I let myself be hurt like that again.But I came to understand that the prospect of leaving her family,friends and job must have scared her deeply.Better before the marriage than after.
　　As the date of our wedding approached,I decided that I still wanted it to be a special day.Rather than spending it dwelling on what might have been,I wanted to celebrate my friendships with all the people who would have been at the party.
　　I had wedding-style invitations printed:"Mr.Raymond Turchansky will not be getting married on Saturday,July 18,1987.So he requests the honor of your presence at the party on that day.Lunch and Champagne at 4 pm".
　　The party was a blast.I wore a tuxedo,had my photo taken with my brother,Larry,who would have been my best man.I played Pachelbel's Canon,a piece I wanted to be my wedding music,a piece she had dismissed as"nice music to dust by".
　　Some 40 people came -- friends,family,colleagues and neighbors.They brought a cake -- with just a groom on it -- reading,"Oh,it's great to be single."Rather than roses,they offered stinkweed.We ate.We drank.And best of all,we laughed.
　　A month later,I was covering the Canadian Amateur Gold Championship.Filling in for another reporter who couldn't make it at the last minute was a woman named Lorraine.She already had a cassette tape filled with versions of Pachelbel's Canon.She wanted to learn how to play golf.She said I made her laugh.I knew that would be the start of a beautiful friendship.
　　Two years later,we spent our honeymoon along the Mississippi River.When Lorraine says she will marry a person,she does it.I like that in a woman.
　　We recently revisited the American South for our tenth anniversary.Our sons are eight and six years old,and only every second or third day do they say we are the worst parents in the world.
　　As for Helen,I haven't seen her since I drove off into that Vancouver fog.

当地的主教纳尔逊在加拿大西部城市,将执行仪式.1987年7月18日,那一天,就在我37岁生日之前,当我第一次结婚.
她的名字叫海伦.她是一个发型师,我们遇到1986年3月在古巴.三个月后,我们订婚了.然后,她在温哥华平11个月后,她说她不能嫁给我.
开车回到我的家是一个无穷无尽的旅程破坏性的情绪和想法.伤害已经开始,但羞辱还领先.
“是的,时间会治愈的痛苦.“我告诉朋友.我发誓,那将是很长一段时间前我又这样让自己受到伤害.但是我来理解的前景离开她的家人,朋友和工作一定吓坏了她.婚前的比.
随着我们的婚礼日期的临近,我决定我还是希望这是特别的一天.而不是停留在支出可能是什么,我想庆祝我的友谊与所有的人在聚会上.
我有wedding-style邀请函打印出来:“先生.雷蒙德Turchansky周六不会结婚,1987年7月18日.于是他请求的荣誉.那天在聚会上你的存在.午餐和香槟下午4点”.
该党是一个爆炸.我穿着燕尾服,有我的照片和我的哥哥,拉里,谁会是我最好的男人.我扮演帕赫贝尔的佳能,一张我想要我的婚礼音乐,一块她被视为“好音乐到尘埃”.
大约40人,朋友,家人,同事,邻居.他们带来了一个蛋糕——只有一个新郎——阅读,“哦,这是伟大的是单身.”而不是玫瑰,他们发出臭味的植物.我们吃了.我们喝了.最重要的是,我们都笑了.
一个月后,我被覆盖加拿大业余金冠军.填写为另一个记者无法使它在最后一分钟是一个女人,名叫洛林.她已经有了一个盒式磁带满帕赫贝尔的经典版本.她想学习如何打高尔夫球.她说我让她笑.我知道这将是一段美好友谊的开始.
两年后,我们花了我们的蜜月沿着密西西比河.当洛林说她会嫁给一个人,她呢.我喜欢一个女人.
我们最近对我们的十周年纪念日重新审视美国南部.我们的儿子是8和6岁,只有每第二或第三天他们说我们是世界上最糟糕的父母.
海伦,我开车以来我还没见过她掉到温哥华雾.